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Food for Thought 2

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Intelligence is about what you know. Emotions are what you feel, your body does not lie. Life's experiences are all feelings. So which is more important? Logic or emotions? Intellect takes you to the door, but it doesn't take you into the house. Reason rules the emotions at the end of the day. What you think, you feel. Your overall mindset and vibrational frequency determines the energy you attract and has huge life impact. We have both femininity and masculinity in us and have to embrace both. Your female represents  intuition, it's a teacher. The male represent our ability. Those women who seek to be equal with men lack ambition. Ambition is not less than gender and no gender is above another. Moreover, men like women who are more feminine as opposed to the dominant. The man has feminine qualities, and the women, masculine qualities. The heart and the head are metaphoric but only taken literally. The way you think is the way you emote. They are not telling you different t...

Food for Thought 1

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If you want to grow, be content to be foolish and stupid. No man is yet wise and until he seeks wisdom, he cannot become foolish. The one who has searched for wisdom is neither wise nor ignorant and the man considered as the wisest is not yet wise or foolish. Only the foolish and obdurate despise learning. Wisdom in a simple word is learning. Knowledge is that which is gained outside. Thought without learning is perilous. You should only learn without thinking of distractions. You only get wisdom first, and with all your getting, get understanding. Wisdom is the priority. Morality is the priority. It is the principal thing. It is the difference between right and wrong. It is what your heart speaks and what makes you to be you. It is you. It is your intuition. People have lots of thoughts which makes them believe this is a difficult thing.  You ought to realize, you take up very little space in the world as a whole your body, that is; in reasons, however, you yield to no one, not ev...

Wisdom (Food for the Soul)

Bible Description of Wisdom Proverbs 3 : 13 - 18 - The True Wealth  Proverbs 4 : 7 - The Principal Thing  The lord by wisdom hath founded the earth, by understanding hath he established the heavens. By his knowledge, the depths are broken up and the clouds drop down the dew (Prov. 3:19-20 KJV). Wisdom is plainly the knowledge of divine and human matters and the causes of these. It is only when you seek, know the truth and you are in love with all that you know God. There is no wisdom without love. Truth is found in honesty which makes the love for truth the beginning of wisdom. Honesty is a virtue.  Honesty is the first chapter of the book wisdom. ~ Thomas Jefferson You are of higher intelligence and have the innate power of intuition, which is the universe within you, which guides you. It is your spirit, soul, light, your consciousness. Your intuition or inner validation is your wisdom. It is the sacred source called the higher self. Your emotional oracle is the power w...

Remedies of pain

Pain as Emotions

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I think that's what's wrong with the world. No one says what they feel, they always hold it inside, they're sad, but they don't cry, they're happy, but they don't dance or sing, because if they do, they feel ashamed and that's the worst feeling in the world. So everyone walks with their heads down and no one sees how beautiful the sky is. ~ Louise Fitzhugh The one who can adjust to any situation with humility, possess true greatness. The one who knows how to adjust is the one who knows how to survive. If you bang your head against the wall when problems come, your brain will get messed up. The reason you lose happiness or do not feel really happy deep down is your own insolence. It starts with your thoughts. When you start being positive about life and not always rating your fellow man, the light within will shine even unto your darkness that it also starts to reflect around you. As a child of God, forbearance is a good quality. Be like a web of love that ca...

Finding Self II

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Months past, I wrote about finding the self, which I sum up as being better as a person and knowing one's worth in society. In essence, self actualization comes before self realization and there are three parts I told you I was going to discuss, that is, the body, the spirit and the soul. I guess you must have been waiting for the second part and here it is. This is about self realization, the soul and higher purpose. The tragedy of life isn't death, but what we let die inside of us while we live.             -Norman Cousins The gifts of the spirit are love, interconnectedness, talent amongst others. This is what being spiritual entails, not the ability to see monsters or evil spirits, as I had thought. Self actualisation is realizing your talent, your creativity. It means figuring out your place and purpose in the society. You need to know your worth to realize your potential. Self esteem is the proof of self love. Self actualisation brings you to sel...

Self Esteem

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What is self esteem? Self esteem is simply confidence in oneself. It is the absence of self doubt. The lack of self esteem is the failure or inability to believe in oneself. Acknowledging your existence and accepting the reality of you are first steps into believing that you are worthy, regardless of what is said about you. I understand esteem as acknowledging one's flaws and owning it; the presence of awareness. You only have esteem when you are immune to criticism. Esteem comes naturally to you when you are patient enough to know who you are. I will be giving details on narcissism, how shyness is related to esteem, the issue of rape and the truth about peer pressure. You are what you attract. Spending time with positive people will have positive impact on you. When you surround yourself with people who are interested in their own well-being, you will subconsciously become more interested in yours. And if by nature, you know such a man who hides his vulnerability in th...